The Little Things

Hello everyone. I thought I would squeeze in one last blog post before Christmas. I find the extra work and change of routine involved with the festive season puts extra pressure on my already fragile health which, for someone who has always loved Christmas, is rather sad. The greatest pleasure I get at this time of year is from the quiet times when I don't have to deal with people or, in fact, do anything much so I thought I'd share some of the little things that are helping me at the moment.

I love all the decorations that I've collected over the years, many of them made by my children or myself. My daughter spent a day the other week putting them all up for me and I'm really enjoying them. The tree in the picture above is my 'special' tree which is in the latest room to be decorated. When I say the latest, the rugs arrived a day before the tree went up. It's basically a spare bedroom but, as you can see, I've saved a cosy reading corner complete with my Mum's rocking chair.

One of the most exciting things about finishing this room is that we've finally been able to get all my Mum's quilts out of the bin bags they were languishing in and on to the big set of shelves we bought to house them. I'll start showing them to you in the new year but, in the meantime, I've been able to put some of the Christmas ones up on the wall at last. This one, behind the rocking chair, is my favourite.

Opposite the reading corner, in the alcove by the fireplace, is the little stained glass robin quilt Mum made us years ago which I love.

The dolls house on the table below it is one I've had for many years but have never had time to decorate and furnish. I'm hoping to make a start on it next year now that I've got a space to work on it. For now, Father Christmas is trying to work out how to get down the chimney.

We have always had baskets of Christmas picture books out at Christmas. There are two more baskets of them under the piano downstairs but I have got one basket up in this room.

After a bit of a struggle, we managed to hang my Christmas Bunting above the fireplace and then Rose decorated the mantelpiece with pretty things and gingerbread men lights. I'm not sure what the lace knitted fairy thinks she's up to.

Tolly cat isn't a little thing and he's definitely not just for Christmas but he does make me smile. He loves the patchwork coverlet I've put over the bed (to keep cat hairs off the clean bedding underneath). Here he is in a quiet moment in between hunting all those little hexagons. And yes, he really does do that.

As well as the quilts, I have a lovely collection of Christmas stockings that my Mum made me - a new one every year. We hang these on doors around the house. This one is on the front room door this year.

It was one of the first ones Mum made and, as you can see, it's a collage of photos of the children at Christmas when they were small. I also have this beautiful cross stitch stocking which Rose gave me a while ago - this one's on the airing cupboard door.

There's another tree in the front room and more decorations. It was a bit dark to take good photos this morning (it's gloomy most of the day at this time of year) but here are an assortment of knitted things on the piano.

You might recognise some of them as old patterns of mine. The round candle quilt above the piano is another one of Mum's and the little knitted cone snowman was a present from my friend Pat a few years ago.

The front room mantelpiece is pretty too. It's a mixture of old, treasured things, some new and a bit of knitting.

That's my Christmas Wreath hanging between photos of my much-missed Granny as a toddler and on her wedding day.

I've been enjoying my cross stitch this year and there are two new ornaments on this mantelpiece. Here you can see my pyramid shaped Christmas tree; the tree is different on each of the four sides.

I also cross stitched what was called a Christmas pincushion but decided to use it as an ornament stand instead ...

The village scene continues round all four sides and then there's a big snowflake on the top. Again, my apologies for the bad light in these pictures. You get the general idea though. At the other end of the mantelpiece are my cherished tiny crib, a cross stitch gingerbread house and a very pretty old tin. The tiny quilt propped up by the radio is another one of Mum's. She made them into fabric postcards, complete with a terrible poem on the back.

Something else I'm really enjoying this year (as I do every year) is getting out my Christmas china to use. I've collected so many pretty festive mugs that they don't all fit on the shelves. You can see a few of them in this picture.

Choosing which one to use each time I put the kettle on makes a cup of tea a bit special. The teapots on the dresser have their Christmas cosies on too ...

... and I've knitted new ones for the smallest ones this year. Here they are on the tray I use every day which I've lined with one of Mum's Christmas placemats so it's ready for Christmas too.

As a family we really enjoy our advent calendars and, this year, we've each had three different ones. We share pictures of them every day which is nice as we are all in different places. Firstly, we have paper advent calendars. Mine this year was a Brambly Hedge one. Here it is on my bedroom fireplace.

There's a bit of a competition each day as to which of the three of us has the prettiest picture but with festive mice I think I'm winning this year. While we're in this room my little criss-cross shelves are Christmassy too.

My little beaded Christmas village has grown again this year. I think I need to make some stands though so that the houses and things can stand at different heights. New to it this year are (I think) another building, some trees, a post box and a couple of street lights. Next on the list will be a church I think. I'm also very fond of this book which I read again the other day ...

We always have an advent jigsaw each year too. The pieces are divided between 24 envelopes and put together one day at a time. There was much hilarity when Jack's first day consisted almost entirely of white snow pieces! This is how my puzzle is looking after nineteen days.

The third set of advent calendars is the result of my concentration this year on improving my tatting skills. Over many months I tatted three sets of 24 snowflakes, three in each pattern. We have one set each (they're different sizes) and we add one to our snowflake trees each day. I'll write about this project properly next year but here's how my tree is looking today.

So, I may not be able to do very much or celebrate with friends and family as I would have done before the Long Covid but, when I think about it, there are lots of little things around me that make me smile and give me comfort. I hope that wherever you are and whatever your situation you all have a Happy and peaceful Christmas.

My First Coat

 I've never had a grown up coat, one of those smart long ones. And now I have!

It's a nice relaxed fit so that I can wear big jumpers underneath it and, having taken my daughter's advice and gone for a 'petite' size - by which they mean 'short', the sleeves are the right length without having to roll them up.

I'd never have managed to buy it without Rose's help. I'd seen it in my newspaper and it was surprisingly cheap for Marks and Spencer but, as we no longer have a branch here, I couldn't check the colour or fit. Rose went into her Marks in Oxford, tried one on and took photos to send me. She then ordered it for me in the size we decided would fit. Ordering clothes (and especially returning them if they don't fit) is too complicated for my Covid brain so I don't often do it.

I'm really pleased with my new coat and, having worn charity shop jackets for decades, it feels very smart. However, it turns out that it's not actually my first proper coat.

Here I am in 1967 at the age of six with my brother Stephen. Note my alice band - remember those? - and Stephen's traditional plaster on his knee. Those were the days when boys wore shorts up until they were about ten or eleven. The photo was taken in Hamble-Le-Rice (isn't that a great name?) on one of our days out. Here I am wearing my coat again, this time somewhere you probably recognise. I'm glad to see that Stephen's knee is better.

Stonehenge

I seem to have had a bit of a run of buying things for around £70 lately. First there was the coat and then I invested in this wonderful Piano Lamp.

I haven't been able to play the piano for several years because of not being able to read the music. Then it dawned on me that I could ask the optician to prescribe me a pair of fixed vision glasses just for the piano. It took a couple of tries to get the distance right, what with not having a piano to hand in the consulting room, but we got there in the end. The frames are the same as my normal glasses so the piano ones live on the piano (and have an elastic band round one arm too) so that they don't get muddled.

The glasses have meant that I can read the music but I realised that I also needed stronger light, hence the new lamp. It's very bright and also adjustable with a dimmer switch. The picture above was taken in the evening when it was the only light on in the room. The black lamps are intended for modern black pianos but I think it goes well with my old 1920s upright.

Of course, my playing is very rusty so I'm starting with some simple studies by Burgmuller. I never had these as a child learning to play; my violin teacher told me about them. My only experience of studies were the Demnitz ones for Clarinet which weren't exactly exciting. The Burgmuller ones are proper tunes and lovely to play.

My other £70 purchase was this big pile of magazines.

I've been filling in the gaps in my collection of 'New Stitches' magazines for a long time, mostly buying individual copies as and when they come up. I was enquiring from a seller on ebay about combining a couple of small lots when she said that she had lots more to sell. She kindly sorted out all these magazines, 58 in all, to fill in quite a few of my gaps. They arrived in two heavy boxes and will keep me busy for quite a while. Doesn't that cat on the cover in the middle look like Tolly cat?

I particularly like these magazines because they have a range of projects and masterclasses covering lots of different needlecrafts rather than just cross stitch. I think I now have about 80 issues left to find (out of 261). I don't have any of the latest ones though, Issues 213 - 261 and I've never seen them for sale. I expect they'll turn up one day, all together.

Daisy Time

 

It's that time of year when my garden is at its wildest and even I start to think it might be time to cut the grass. I have to wait for the Ox-Eye Daisies to flower first though and they're in their full glory right now.

This is the view of the garden from my bedroom. The bottom half is a bit tamer and you might just be able to make out the winding cat (and human) path that goes through the middle of it. All the visiting cats keep to it, including Violet who doesn't live here but thinks she does. I have to keep the back door shut if I'm upstairs or she wanders in and helps herself to Tolly's food.

As well as the daisies, my roses are all flowering now after a slow start because of the lack of rain this Spring. Here's Kew Gardens all mixed up with some Love-in-the-mist and a Geranium.

Next to it and hiding behind another rose is one of my short foxgloves. I know, they're meant to be taller than this but all mine only grow this high. Maybe they give up once their roots hit the heavy clay soil? 

The big leaves by the wall are some of the Hollyhocks that I planted this year. These look like they might be a more respectable height anyway. I bought them from the plant stall in our market which has really nice plants that you can get when they're small (and cheap). I'm very lucky to have that stall nearby now that I can't drive to garden centres as I used to. I do have to enlist help to carry my purchases though as I can't carry things and breathe at the same time.

This is Buff Beauty which lives on the other side of the garden and has lots of coffee coloured flowers. David Austin roses aren't cheap but they are really good quality and grow quickly even when planted as bare roots. 

Just up from this one is  my rose in a cage ...

I planted The Pilgrim inside this big obelisk about three or four years ago and it looked ridiculous sitting at the bottom. It's being making good progress ever since though and the frame is doing a good job of supporting it.

Yellow roses are my favourites but what I call marmalade coloured ones come a close second. This one is Lady of Shalott and is holding its own against the wild daisies now that it's got a bit bigger.

That's more hollyhocks next to it; these ones aren't as tall as the others yet although they all started off the same. Isn't this a gorgeous colour?

Tucked down by the side of the house where it gets virtually no sun is a rose that has been in this garden longer than I have. I'm not sure of its name - possibly Maiden's Blush although the pictures I've seen all look more pink than mine which is very pale. That could be down to it to being in a shady spot perhaps?

Last Spring my daughter helped me plant three new bare root roses in the front garden, two more yellow with a white one in between. They flowered last Summer which I hadn't been expecting but have really come into their own this year.

This is the wonderfully named Tottering-by-Gently and, next to the gate, is The Poet's Wife.

Apparently, this one has a nice scent. I try to buy scented roses even if my Long Covid means that I can't smell them. Passers-by can enjoy them. The white rose in between (White Flower Carpet) is a ground cover rather than a shrub rose so it only just reaches up to the railings at the moment. It's absolutely full of blooms though.

This year I planted two Lavender Hidcote plants in between these three roses. They're tiny at the moment but they will grow. I particularly wanted the Hidcote variety as they reminded me of a lovely day spent at Hidcote Gardens back in the days when I was well. It's a series of little gardens, almost like rooms, each with their own character and style and I spent a long time wandering through them.

In between admiring my daisies and roses, I've been crocheting flowers. Some big ...

... some small ...

... and some absolutely tiny.

These ones are crocheted with a 1 mm hook using size 20 Lizbeth tatting thread. The buttons are about half an inch across. I got the idea from Diane's blog - if you search 'button flowers' on there you can see hundreds of lovely examples. I enjoy reading a blog by someone else who does lots of different crafts like I do. Anyway, I just used part of the pattern for my bigger flowers to make my little buttons. I want to make more of these but I'm going to order a more comfortable hook first. I find thin metal hooks tricky to grip so I shall get one of my favourite Clover Amour hooks to play with.

Mass Production

I like to think of craft as a peaceful relaxing activity, preferably accompanied by a pot of tea. In reality though, it often degenerates into something like mass production with me determinedly making lots and lots of the same things and regretting my initial enthusiasm. Luckily, I'm normally re-enthused once I see the finished project but in the meantime it can be a bit of a chore.

Would you like to see some of the projects that are currently filling up my days? This year I'm on a mission to actually make all the cards I send, rather than just think I'll do it right up until about mid December when the penny drops.

In the first three months of 2025 I made all the birthday cards I needed for this year. I can only show you the ones that have been sent so far. These are all cross stitch, a mixture of kits and patterns from magazines.

There are a couple of canvaswork designs in this next batch and the red one is Lagartera embroidery.

Having made the birthday cards I moved on to Christmas preparations last month (Don't laugh, I'll be the smug one later in the year). I started by making lots of Christmas gift tags, some in cross stitch and some blackwork. They're now packed away in a pretty tin with this year's mini stockings that I always design and knit in January. I tie these to the outside of the presents and fill them with little chocolates.

Next I stitched the cards I make for the four people in my immediate family. Which left what we call my mass produced Christmas cards. Every year I work out a design for a handmade Christmas card and then make an awful lot of them.

Last year I sewed together strips of scrap fabrics and then cut them into tree shapes and added a felt pot and a sequin star.

This year I decided on papercraft cards and found some nice cutting dies in the shape of baubles. This is what 50 Christmas cards in kit form looks like.

This was after I'd cut out all the various pieces. Now I'm on to the gluing stage which is fiddly but, by doing one small stage at a time, I'm getting there. 

These are the essentials for this year's cards. Well not Tolly obviously but he does like to join in. First, my Sizzix Big Shot machine. This is so good. As well as making cards I also use it to keep my daughter and I supplied with thread bobbins and to cut aperture cards for our cross stitch. The little bronze shapes are two of the dies I used for my bauble cards. You can cut out the basic bauble shape and then re-cut it with the detailed cutter. I'm using shiny card but I also tried it with felt, thinking it would probably be too thick but it worked perfectly. Think of the possibilities ...

The plastic thing with a snowflake pattern on is an embossing folder. You put a piece of card inside it, run it through the machine and end up with a pattern of snowflakes embossed into the card. You might just be able to see some of the card at the top of the picture with all the pieces in. When it comes to gluing small pieces of card together I find my fine tip glue bottle from Petite Properties is a must. I fill it with ordinary PVA glue. The tweezers were a present from my son; they're reverse action tweezers which means that, once you've got them holding whatever little thing you want, you can relax your hand, only pressing when you want to open them again. As well as holding tiny pieces of card to be glued, I've also used them when painting miniatures.

So, that's one lot of mass production but, obviously, there's always a production line of knitting and crochet going on here too. Out of my many unfinished projects that need working on, I'm currently trying to concentrate on three different lots of crochet. 

This is my box of corner to corner blocks; I need to make 64 of these all together. They'll go together something like this ...

Then there's my box of African Violet hexagons too.

These are fun to make, mostly because of that pretty yarn. I don't know how many of these I'm going to need but I know I've still got lots to make.

Then I had the bright idea of making some crochet flowers on sticks (as you do) and I seem to have got a bit carried away.

I'm producing these at a rate of six a day, mainly in an attempt to get them finished before I go off the idea. I think I might need to give them some leaves too.

The only bit of mass produced knitting I'm working on at the moment is these little pouches.

Last year I decided to work out how to make my own crackers using thin card, wrapping paper and ribbon. I made a dozen, six for here and six for my daughter's house.

The inner tubes and the ribbon can be used again and I made notes on how I made them so this year's set should be a lot easier to make. I wanted to put something nice in the crackers and, after much searching online, came up with the idea of little jigsaw puzzles. The most economical way to get them was to buy one of these.

This is the Christmas Village Advent Calendar, 24 little 50 piece puzzles. It cost about £30 and gave me enough puzzles for two year's worth of crackers which I thought was pretty good.  Also, isn't the box pretty? I'm going to keep it to turn into a special advent calendar one day; there are little pictures in the back of each drawer too. 

The puzzles come in plastic bags but I decided to knit little pouches for them too, just in case those plastic bags split. I used my old Gift Wrap pattern and oddments of plain and variegated yarn left over from knitting socks.

This year I'm knitting plain pouches but, every time the yarn changes colour, I knit a round or so in K1, P1 - stops me getting bored.

Although it's very satisfying to be getting ahead like this, it will be nice to get back to making just one of something. 

Meanwhile, the decorating goes on. Over the past month or more, I've been working on the bedroom on the middle floor. 

Looking good you might think but, if you look at the other half of the room ...

... you can see that it's not finished yet. Once we've moved this lot, I've got to do it all again. Mind you, I'm not varnishing the floor under the bed. I might give it a clean but that's it. The second lot of painting and varnishing might be a bit quicker as there's less wall to paint. The built in cupboard, fireplace and window take up quite a lot of it. Of course, that does mean I've got to paint the window frame. Maybe by the end of the summer I shall be able to show you another finished room. See the bags on the bed? They're my Mum's quilts, waiting for new storage in this room once it's finished. I'm really looking forward to showing them to you once I can get at them properly. There are masses of them and they're all beautiful.